Ah yes, disillusionment: a staple diet for students of humanity. But in this case it sounds like a good thing. And what will you do with this experience now?
I have to say this: it is almost certain that you won't be able to give her self esteem, if that is what you want to do. I speak rom experience, here. She'll take what you give her and it won't make any difference how well you treat her. When someone is self-destruvtive they are INCAPABLE of thinking about anyone else.
Oh, so much pain.
Please remember, she's real, she's right there; help her if you can but know that anything that hurts you, you ultimately do to yourself.
Life is too complex. Change is good. I don't want to be so negative.
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