I can't fully answer to this delicate question, yet here's my share, the experiment I unwillingly performed over my myself.
There is this "She". You care her so much that embalance ensues, because you move all your resources to her side. So, you grow unstable, and sooner or later you fall.
After that, you won't challenge the balance again. So, maybe you'll meet a "She" who needs a bit of your weights, or she will fall, but you will be live in the fear to go down again.
This time, she will be the one to meet the ground.
For me, until now, the process hasn't been reversible. I am looking forward to experiment again, but behind my shoulders there are the fragments of many fallen "She"s. And I am sincerely sad both for them, and myself.
Metaphorical andrea.
ps. I am Jack's shopping bag.
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